We all desire to enjoy sharing love with someone special in our life, but sometimes it may be a little difficult getting love to come to us as we want it.
It’s common for some people to fall in love with a special person they fancy and have a desire to have a relationship with them, but that other person does not have an equal desire or feelings in return.
Other persons may not have a special prospective lover, but they are very frustrated with the length of time they have been lonely, and no one seems to be coming forward with a deep interest to share a loving relationship.
No matter what your specific situation is, if your desire is to make someone fall in love with you, I am here to give you the information you need to help solve your problem. In this article we’ll explore the truth behind the phenomenon falling in love.
First, Lets Understand How Love Works And What falling In Love is
I always believe that we should have a clear understanding of how something works, what it really is, before attempting to solve a problem we have that surrounds it. If we want to get abundant love in our life, we need to have a good understanding of love.
Love has a variety of forms, but the type of love we are focused on here is the strong emotions that someone feel that cause them to have romantic thoughts of you and affectionately desire to have you in their life.
This type of love, according to experts, is controlled by functions in the brain. It is not, like many people think, a totally magical process that people have no control over.
Love is a psychological feeling that occurs based on a person’s mental state and individual perceptions just like anger, jealousy, happiness and other emotions. In the same way that we can change certain circumstances to control these other emotions in people, love can also be manipulated and controlled.
What Makes People Fall In Love And How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You
Most people’s primary motive for falling in love is for self-gratification and self-fulfillment. Yes, we express love by giving a person special attention and doing things to please them, but primarily we selected that person as a love mate because we expect personal rewards from having a relationship with that person.
We are attracted to people that possess traits that meet our criteria of what is desirable and meaningful to us. The signals in our brain that determines which person is right for us to have a romantic relationship with is influence by different factors ranging from our genes to our desire to be secure and even survival.
In order for someone to fall in love with you they have to at least perceive visually or mentally some sign that you possess some of the qualities that are on their psychological criteria of a desirable mate, and not the other way around.
Most people will get someone to fall in love with them when certain conditions attributed to them gives that person heightened feelings of excitement, interest, security, pleasure or any feeling that that they desire. So falling in love can further be described as a reaction that happens when the person being loved generates positive feelings in the person falling in love with them.
Even simple conditions like the way you smell, dress, smile and speak can arouse positive feelings in other people that can lead them to fall in love with you. As I said, the feeling of love is really a reaction that happens when functions of the brain are affected. And the brain is capable of being greatly influenced by simple things like gestures and words.
Love is not a feeling that comes from the air and enters a person. Your success in getting someone to fall in love with you is based on how that person thinks and what conditions you can create to arouse the emotional state of love in that person. We know the conditions that can get people to feel anger or jealousy, and most of us also know what we need to do to get people to feel love towards us.
Just think about, if you are the one inluencing a man’s or woman’s mind and getting them to naturally release feelings of love, who are they going to give that love to? Of course it’s you! See here to learn the various things you can do to get someone to fall in love with you.